The Queer Love Project

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Do Clothes Make the Man?

I existed in a happy “homo-stasis” with my partner—sharing everything from underwear to designer shirts—until we had to begin living long-distance due to a new job. That's when things got weird.

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Jerry Portwood
Oct 08, 2025
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