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I'm noticing a serious "daddy" trend in so many essays we've been receiving and publishing. But I didn't expect it from a woman living and loving another woman. So much to unpack here!

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Sep 16·edited Sep 16Liked by Jerry Portwood

I wanted much more unpacking but maybe that will appear in the memoir.

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Sep 10Liked by Jerry Portwood, Michael Narkunski, Asya Graf

This is the first piece I have ever read that’s come close to how I feel about exploring my queerness while being married to my wife. I really agree with the concept that we queer folk are maybe better at recognizing, and working through, the dissonances within our identities.

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Sep 14Liked by Jerry Portwood, Michael Narkunski

I’m curious about the author's wife's adaptation mechanisms: what kind of shielding does she utilize to protect herself from the desert of jealousy, envy, insecurity, hurt, and anger?

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great question. and she may be writing a piece from her perspective soon so stay tuned!

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