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Molly Cameron's avatar

Thank you for sharing this, Julia! You paint a vivid picture of how grief and anger and love can all intertwine.

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Julia Grant's avatar

Thanks, Molly!

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Emillio Mesa's avatar

This essay captures the complex interplay of pain and beauty that illness brings. It shows the profound impact on loved ones and reflects on the resilience of TRUE love that powers through even in the toughest, most uncertain of times...so powerful. You go, Julia!

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Julia Grant's avatar

Thanks so much, Emilio!

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Jerry Portwood's avatar

so well said. I worried some people might not understand why this sentiment is so powerful and needed (especially now)

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Emillio Mesa's avatar

Thx and 100%!

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June Thomas's avatar

A lovely piece!

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Andrea Stoeckel's avatar

Oh Julia - As a pastor I wish I could hold your pain. As a newly divorced LGBTQ I feel your loss. As a fellow teacher of sorts I celebrate your post. As a former caregiver I took am angry at how cancer kills and lastly we are here if you need us

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Julia Grant's avatar

Andrea, Thank you so much. I wish that there could be more recognition that death doesn’t always look like the “hallmark” version.

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Jerry Portwood's avatar

thanks for understanding and supporting. I am committed to sharing the multiplicity of experiences (not just the easier or "happy" ones) so it gives me hope to see that others are sensitive and understand that as well!

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