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Gail Marlene Schwartz's avatar

This beautiful essay is a tribute to the love that can be present in life as a single person. Many thanks, Michael.

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Neth Williams's avatar

I don't blame you. I met my husband at 21, 23 years ago. If death or divorce were to make me single, I can't even imagine wanting to do this again at my age.

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Michael Horvich's avatar

Neth, Thanks for your comments. I am a little less than 40 years ahead of you. If I was as young as you, I might be a little more interested. But also, my 41-year love with my husband was the most wonderful thing that ever happened to me so that is part of why I do not want another love relastionship.

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Brenden O'Donnell's avatar

The picture at the top of this post…so sweet and tender. I’m glad you’ve recouped your sass and are living your life 💜

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Michael Horvich's avatar

Brenden, Thanks for your comments. In the beginning it was difficult to live outloud, but eventually the grief, although it will never go away, got easier to carry. I am currently living my life to its fullest and more! Fondly, Michael

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Emillio Mesa's avatar

He’s a pistol! Obsessed. What a life!

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Michael Horvich's avatar

Emilliio, Thanks! It has been a good life, a big life, a meaningful life, and more. Fondly, Michael

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