I was less interested in a romantic partner when I dated. Because I never lost hope that my deeper dream would become a reality—and I’d become somebody’s mother.
What a beautiful and triumphant story, Nikkya, so well-crafted and deeply emotionally resonant. Many thanks for being a model for so many of us...it's too easy to believe that we who have lived trauma are just not capable of healthy love. Your essay is a testimony to the fact that we are.
This is so beautiful, and such a gorgeous reminder never to give up on our dreams of parenthood or love, and that they may come in unexpected forms.
can't wait to read yours one of these days soon as well, Rachel!
Thanks! I actually started one last night.
Oh, my heart. What a beautiful story. I’m so glad it’s out in the world. Thank you for sharing!
A beautiful story!
What a beautiful and triumphant story, Nikkya, so well-crafted and deeply emotionally resonant. Many thanks for being a model for so many of us...it's too easy to believe that we who have lived trauma are just not capable of healthy love. Your essay is a testimony to the fact that we are.