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The QLP Questionnaire: Bronson Lemer
"I found myself identifying with the characters on the fringes, the oddballs and weirdos... I think this was an early reckoning with my own queerness…
Feb 6
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Jerry Portwood
21
2
4
The QLP Questionnaire: Dan Pal
"I’m always surprised by people who pronounce their love to friends before it feels earned. I’ve heard people say it to me, and I wonder if they really…
Jan 30
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Jerry Portwood
and
Dan Pal
27
11
2
The QLP Questionnaire: Gino Cosme
"Relationships don’t collapse because people don’t love each other. They often do because people don’t feel safe to be ordinary."
Jan 16
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Gino Cosme
and
Jerry Portwood
33
12
7
The QLP Questionnaire: Moorea Maguire
"Relationship anarchy resonates with me a lot. I don’t believe a committed relationship has to look as society ordains."
Nov 21, 2025
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Jerry Portwood
and
Moorea Maguire
24
3
5
The QLP Questionnaire: Max Freedman
"You work at love for a long period of time; it’s not sudden, and the work is ongoing. I don’t believe in love at first sight—you’re just having a…
Nov 14, 2025
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Jerry Portwood
and
Lavender Sound (Max Freedman)
24
11
6
The QLP Questionnaire: Gino Fontana
"'Xena: Warrior Princess' taught me early that gender labels have no real value—her body held both strength and grace, muscle and intellect, action and…
Nov 8, 2025
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Jerry Portwood
and
LePoint G
33
14
5
The QLP Questionnaire: Kara Westerman
"I generally don’t feel queer enough. I’ve had relationships with men and women my whole life. And I married a trans man. But my family didn’t know…
Oct 31, 2025
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Jerry Portwood
and
Kara Westerman (she/her)
20
17
5
The QLP Questionnaire: Julie Snider
"Everyone brings joy. Some when they enter the room, others when they leave. I try to be involved with the first type."
Oct 24, 2025
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Jerry Portwood
and
Julie Snider
24
18
3
The QLP Questionnaire: Wayne Scott
"I'm partnered in a mixed orientation marriage—together over 30 years—which is now consensually nonmonogamous and allows outside romantic partners."
Oct 15, 2025
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Wayne Scott
and
Jerry Portwood
21
4
4
The QLP Questionnaire: Cody Daigle-Orians
"I didn’t find asexuality until my forties, so I spent the bulk of my queer life thinking I was just a 'bad gay'... It’s hard to make a relationship…
Sep 26, 2025
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Jerry Portwood
and
Cody Daigle-Orians
27
5
The QLP Questionnaire: Brian Watson
"My husband already knows (and has known) about my femme qualities, and I have never needed to butch things up for him. As I explore an enby identity…
Sep 12, 2025
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Jerry Portwood
and
Brian Watson
16
6
3
The QLP Questionnaire: Caleb Reed
"I was 44 years old and had just come out...I felt like a 14-year-old boy holding someone’s hand of the same-gender for the first time, kissing a guy…
Aug 22, 2025
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Caleb Reed
and
Jerry Portwood
16
4
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