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The QLP Questionnaire: Rande Iaboni
"Dating apps suck, but I know numerous couples who have found love on them. You just need to be swiping with intention, not treating it like a video…
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Rande Iaboni
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The QLP Questionnaire: Ryan Sheldon
"I don’t think there’s been truly great representation of queer love in the media. Even in movies or shows that attempt to portray it, the characters…
The QLP Questionnaire: Natalia Weaver
"This persistent belief that I am settling for a woman because I can’t get a man is hilariously wrong and laughable..."
The QLP Questionnaire: Wayne Hoffman
"I routinely talk to straight people who wish they could organize their relationships as deliberately and intentionally as gay men can."
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Wayne Hoffman
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The QLP Questionnaire: Troy Ford
"A sense of humor can smooth the edges off many a rough spot. I can’t see how a relationship would work if you can’t laugh with and at each other—and…
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Mr. Troy Ford
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Tom Pyun on Dating White Men, Navigating Privilege, and Following His Passion
The debut author's book, 'Something Close to Nothing,' focuses on a gay male couple whose relationship is at a crossroads.
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Jerry Portwood
The QLP Questionnaire: Roger Q. Mason
"As a big black femme, I’ve found that men are afraid to associate themselves with me... [I'm still] looking for someone who's free to explore, expand…
The QLP Questionnaire: Gina Femia
"When you’re in a long-term relationship, the other person will be there to watch you grow and change. I share parts of myself that I’m not even aware…
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The QLP Questionnaire: Lovell Holder
"None of us have ever met all the people who are going to love us. That’s not just romantic love. That can be the love of a future best friend or even…
The QLP Questionnaire: Michael Volpatt
I’m done looking for the perfect “picket fence” relationship—and am content with loving myself.
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Michael Volpatt
The QLP Questionnaire: LaShawn McGhee
"I’ve always loved the idea of having a wife, but the concept of 'the one' seems unrealistic. One person can’t possibly be your everything."
The QLP Questionnaire: Alex Espinoza
"There was nothing I liked about dating... I’d never had a boyfriend until I met my husband when I was in my thirties. Until then, I thought I’d be…
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